Marriage is a relationship that can be described in many ways. Some opinions are very much alike while some others being the stark contrast. Some would call it a declaration of love while some would call it another norm of the oppressive patriarchy. Some find it to be important while others deem it unnecessary. Say what anyone might, it is a widely accepted societal phenomenon in which two people pledge to spend their lives together. However, like any other relationship, this one too comes with bumps on the road.
That’s where marriage counselling comes into play.
Against contrary beliefs, marriage counselling isn’t just for unhappy couples that face problems. Like most things in life, marriages too require work and that’s what counselling is all about.
Even the best of marriages have underlying issues and there is no shame in acknowledging them. There will always be room for improvement.
Therefore, a good marriage counsellor won’t help you identify the negative areas of your relationship but also show all that’s good in your relationship, why it’s worth preserving. They help smoothen the creases that may turn to craters someday in ways to help you make your marriage happier. The best psychologists enhance all the positive there is to your relationship and also help in keeping the spark alive.
Like finding the right therapist, it’s important to find the right marriage counsellor too. While looking for you right fit, it’s important that you look for someone who connects well with you, understands you, is unbiased and non-judgemental. Another sign of a good marriage counsellor is that they discourage blame games and are proficient in recognizing the toxic patterns in the relationship as well as those in the relationship, which contribute to the conflicts in the marriage. This exactly what we aim to provide you with at Happitude Studios with our psychologist, Dr. Rashi Ahuja.
But finding the best marriage counsellor isn’t the end of the battle, another important aspect to consider to find success in marriage counselling is awareness. Awareness of yourself, your relationship, your expectations from it and most importantly of each other and what you both want to achieve.
The more aware you are of your needs and the more you can gain out of therapy. And a good marital therapist will also help provide you the same perspective. In our opinion some of the questions you can consider asking during your marital therapy include:
- How would therapy help me?
- Will I ever be able to trust my partner again?
- What are the things I should not say to my partner?
- How can we improve on our communication?
- What could be the impact of our relationship on our children/ families
- What are the dysfunctional patterns in our relations?
- What are our coping strategies?
- How can we express love?
These are questions that can be easily answered by us in therapy as they are tailor-cut to each one’s need and if you do want these answers then don’t hesitate to contact us.
One of the best marriage counselling services is offered at Happitude Studio. Under the guidance of Rashi Ahuja, quite a few couples have blossomed out of their troubles. She is one of the best psychologists in Delhi and offers both couple therapy and marriage counselling.
Here at Happitude Studio, you and your needs come first. Sessions are conducted one on one as well as with your partner. All of this is done in a safe, non-judgmental and comfortable environment.
Please visit www.happitudestudio.com for any more queries.